Steven Wegner
March 2, 1957 - May 2, 2026
Steven Wegner Obituary
Saturday, May 2, 2026, was a beautiful spring morning. In God’s perfect timing, Steve
entered life eternal and is now pain free. After a short, courageous, hard-fought battle
with pancreatic cancer, with his family at his side, Steve left this world. Heaven has
gained one of the most caring, loving, faithful men of God, and he will be dearly missed
by all who were blessed to have known him.
Steven Edward Wegner was born on March 2,1957 to Herman "Rudy" and Bernice
Wegner in Billings, Montana. Steve attended school in Laurel, graduating in
1976. He was quite an athlete, excelling in basketball, football and track. After years of
constant practice, high expectations and demands, he chose to forgo college and went
to work for the Burlington Northern Railroad.
After four years of sewing his wild oats and enjoying the freedom he felt he did not get
to have in high school, Steve met the love of his life at Walton’s Cabin in Beehive along
the Stillwater River in Absarokee on August 1, 1979. Steve and Shawna were married
exactly one year later, on August 2,1980. They credit the success of 46 years of
marriage to always going back to, 1) Their promise to the Lord, 2) The promise to each
other and 3) The promise to their family and friends on the day they took their vows. It
was not always easy, and they both admit they have gone through everything
imaginable together, but by going back to their vows, leaning on and trusting in the Lord,
and having true love and ultimate respect for each other, they were able to overcome
every obstacle that crossed their path.
Steve went to work for Cenex Refinery in 1988 and remained there until back issues
forced him into early retirement. Steve enjoyed his job, but he LOVED firefighting. He
was a volunteer for the City of Laurel and served on the Cenex team. When he retired,
it was firefighting he missed the most. He felt like this gave him a purpose and he took
being a first respondor very seriously. He made good, life-long friends on the
department and he cherished each one of his firemen brothers.
Steve’s greatest joy was being a dad and papa, and boy was he ever awesome at both!
A son, Ryan Edward, was born on March 1, 1982. He died 10 days later due to being
10 weeks premature. Ryan’s death was extremely hard on Steve. The Lord blessed
he and Shawna with the birth of a beautiful daughter, Heather Diana, on January 9,
1983. Knowing Heather would be their only child, Steve rolled her down the long hall
from the nursery to Shawna’s hospital room and said, “We are going to have to work
really hard to assure Heather does not grow up to be a typical only child.” As it turns
out, he did not hold up his end of the bargain as she was pretty spoiled by her daddy.
But, despite it, she has grown to be a wonderful, loving, caring woman and phenomenal
mom.
Steve was an avid hunter and fisherman, taking advantage of the great outdoors
whenever the opportunity arose. For years, he enjoyed annual hunting trips in the
Missouri Breaks with his dear friends. However, his annual Christmas shopping trip with
Heather was the highlight of his year. He would let her skip school, and they would start
the day off with breakfast, would shop all day, play games at the arcade in the mall, and
end the day with a special dinner at McDonalds. They did this every year until she got
married.
Steve’s ability to love and care for those who needed it most was unmatched. He
absolutely loved to stop at a child’s lemonade stand and give them a $5 bill just to watch
their smiling faces. Heather inherited her dad’s caring nature and has devoted her life
to education and a special love of nurturing and educating children with special needs.
She graduates with a bachelor’s degree in education on Saturday, May 9. Steve was
beyond proud of her and was looking forward to traveling to see her graduate.
Heather and Ken blessed Steve and Shawna with two beautiful, loving grandchildren,
Kenzie Raylin and Gavyn Earl, giving Steve the honor and joy of being a papa. He took
this role very seriously and understood the assignment. It surely was the role of being
the “yes” man in their lives. They grew to know there was very little papa would say
“no” to. There were also very few things he could not fix, get the spot out of, or simply
make better. He cherished every single moment with them. Steve looked forward to
driving Kenzie to softball tournaments each summer. He absolutely loved watching her
play, but each time she was at bat, you could find him hiding behind the dugout as it
made him too nervous to watch; However, once he heard the crack of the bat, he
emerged to cheer her on again. He was so very proud of Gavyn’s participation in FFA.
When he was appointed an officer role, Steve cried with pride. Gavyn had fun raiding
Papa’s closet each time he was home. He would swear to return each item, only to
have to be reminded a few (or 10) times! During a trip to the Black Hills and Denver a
couple of years ago, Gavyn thanked his papa for teaching him “How to be a good man”.
Gavyn graduates from High School on Saturday, May 16, and Steve will surely be there
in spirit. The seat reserved for him is sure to be noticed as being void of a very special
man in Gavyn’s life. Papa loved you both “To the Moon and Back 10 zillion times!”
Steve is preceded in death by his infant son, Ryan Edward, his father Herman (Rudy)
Wegner, his mother Bernice Wegner, and brother Rick Wegner. He is survived by his
wife of 46 years, Shawna; daughter Heather (Ken) Harrison; granddaughter Kenzie
Harrison and grandson Gavyn Harrison; his only sister, Shelley (Ray) Southworth;
Mother-In-Law Diana Swecker; Sister-In-Law Jodi (Jim) Nelson; Brother-In-Law Jamie
(Lisa) Swecker; Sister-In-Law Teri (Ed) Michael; Sister-In-Law Rosie (Mark) Jackson;
and Sister-In-Law Tasha Carter; all of whom he loved very much.
Steve was a very devoted family man and absolutely loved family gatherings. He and
Shawna are blessed beyond measure with many nieces and nephews, and great nieces
and nephews.
Memorial Services will be held Monday, May 11, @ 10:00 a.m. at The Rock Church, 820
West 9 th Street Laurel, MT. Luncheon will be served immediately after the service.
Memorial contributions may be made in memory of Steve to:
The Laurel Volunteer Fire Department
214 W First St., Laurel MT 59044
The Rock Church
820 W 9 th St., Laurel MT 59044
American Cancer Society
PO Box 6704
Hagerstown, MD 21741
Until we meet again, my love. Rest in Peace.
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Saturday, May 2, 2026, was a beautiful spring morning. In God’s perfect timing, Steve
entered life eternal and is now pain free. After a short, courageous, hard-fought battle
with pancreatic cancer, with his family at his side, Steve left this world. Heaven has
gained one of the mos
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